You have you own perspective of things.
It's up to you how you see it, good or bad...
If you look at it as an advantage or a disadvantage in your life.
You choose your own way.
Not her, not him, not your friends, not your parents, not by flipping a silly coin.
Or else, maybe someday blaming that coin for where you ended up.
Some might not understand because you have different opinions and perspective.
Differ in experience and thought.
You base things from everything you've been through
which some people don't get because they weren't there to witness it.
Therefore judging you based on their ignorance. Completely blinded of their ow